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LidiaIsadoraI am happy to share some good news… Lidia got to return home today! We are so very glad to see her reunited with Isadora and back in her own bed again! Lidia has really loved looking at the cards she’s received and getting mail really does brighten her day… especially when it’s something cute she can show Isadora:)

We will pick up mail from the hospital if there is any on the way, but going forward we welcome you to share any cards or letters of encouragement to Lidia at this address:

Lidia Grigorean
9720 Coit Rd, Suite 220-222
Plano, TX 75025

The results of Monday’s CT scan came back inconclusive so we are likely back to preparing for a biopsy. She can’t do anything until she can fight off this stubborn C. Diff infection, though. She is still in a considerable amount of pain and very nauseous. I have to say though for a very sick woman who’s going through so much right now, she’s taking on all of this with incredible strength! She’s remains so positive and sweet and rather funny at times!  That #OhSoPoshSTRONG hashtag is quite fitting I think.

I know she believes in the power of prayer so let’s lift her up… there’s no prayer too small.    ;)

~Melanie

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CJ - March 12, 2014 - 11:03 am

Maybe I am the eternal optimist but inconclusive scan gives me hope it’s not cancer. It’s in my prayers. Also praying for Lidia and Isadora to have some great laughs and long lives together as healthy happy people! Stay strong!

kris allbright - March 12, 2014 - 11:41 am

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Lidia. Sending love to you and Isadora.

Cheri Root - March 15, 2014 - 12:35 am

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Susan Lindow - March 15, 2014 - 8:41 am

Be Strong in the Lord and in the power of his might..
Ephesians 6:10

Praying this for you Lidia.

Robin Potter - March 19, 2014 - 9:36 pm

Melanie & Lidia ~~ I’ve just spent the day reading this amazing Blog for the first time. What an incomparable testament to the human spirit! I wanted to suggest that your docs might try patches for your pain control if they haven’t already. So moved by the love, the thrall of beauty and light in the face of such daunting circumstances. Will be sending love and light your way!

Update from the hospital

afterlightLidia is still in the hospital and just came back from having another CT scan done. The surgeon feels there’s a possibility that this pain in her rib could still be caused from something other than cancer so they wanted to get a better view of that isolated area to get another look. The biopsy is a very invasive procedure that requires them to remove 2-3 inches of her rib and there are a MANY risks involved with the procedure. We want to avoid a biopsy… lets pray that an answer comes through in this CT scan… and that it’s NOT cancer!!!

We want her body to heal enough to get her to the point where she can at least get home to her daughter. She is still struggling with this C. Diff infection while at the same time trying keep the excruciating back pain under control. In order to get her home, the hospital needs to see that the C. Diff is improving, and she has to be able to go a full day relying on only oral pain medication and without getting nauseous (Trying to keep things down has been another huge struggle). She’s also developing a case of thrush in response to the antibiotics so now it’s hard to talk and swallow. We are going to try a new medicine for her C. Diff infection today to see if that helps. If all goes well, we’re hoping she can be released tomorrow.

photoThe good news is that her sister is in town!!! Lidia was so happy to see her! It’s hard enough to go through something like this, but going through it without ANY family here has been really hard for Lidia. Honestly these last few days have just been extremely difficult for her in so many ways. However, this outpour of love from her supporters (old and new) has filled her spirit at the times it was most needed. The #OhSoPoshStrong hashtag campaign on instagram has hit over 1,000 pictures! She can’t believe it and some of the stories and comments that have filled her heart with gratitude and eyes with happy tears.

Isadora is staying SO STRONG.  It’s very clear she is scared and missing her mom’s company, she is so optimistic at heart and continues to melt us all with that smile on her face so much of the time. Yesterday we went to the zoo and she pointed out a log that was shaped like a heart, and another log that to her looked like a dog chasing a rock! So much like her mama how she likes to look a little deeper at things. It’s spring break for Isadora and Lidia is really struggling with not being able to enjoy more time with her. So far Isadora has just been able to be up there for very short periods of time each day. Lets all pray that soon enough they’ll be able to spend a lot of carefree time together finding lots of new shapes in everyday objects  ;)

And a side note for us moms who may be wondering how we’re going to get through a whole week of the kids being out of school wanting constant attention and stuff to do during spring break… let this serve as a reminder to be oh so happy to be able to see our kids faces (no matter how messy) for more than a few minutes a day.

~Melanie

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CJ - March 10, 2014 - 1:59 pm

This news made me smile. I was getting worried. But now I am full of hope for her and Isadora. She will thrive and let’s pray for some great answers today!

Chris - March 10, 2014 - 2:19 pm

Thank you Melanie, for the update! I love what you said about Spring Break. I echo those very true words. You are a wonderful friend. Sending lots of love and prayers to all.

cathy alvarez - March 10, 2014 - 3:17 pm

Hey there,

Fellow N.Tex photog here.. I live in McKinney and am literally 15 minutes from the hospital. I can help in any way needed, just let me know.

Keeping you all in my thoughts,

Cathy

Kate - March 10, 2014 - 3:19 pm

Thank you for the sweet update. I’ve been thinking of Lidia and Isadora! Stay strong Lidia and let’s beat this thing!!

Johanna - March 10, 2014 - 3:21 pm

Hello, Lidia. I am glad that Isadora is a joy that can convey, children are the most beautiful and have to fight for it. The main thing is healthy eating (raw), deep breathing, positive attitude. I wish you well, that the study has good news and it’s nothing bad. Greetings from Venezuela. :)

Genevieve Thompson (Jennifer) - March 10, 2014 - 3:21 pm

the other day I posted delay is not denial. I was sharing Lidia’s story and the problems she’s been facing with my husband. He said did it ever occur to you that delay is not denial? I said what do you mean? He said perhaps the reason the Cdiff is still there is because maybe this isn’t cancer and it’s keeping her from having an invasive procedure that she may not need to have. Oh how we are praying that this is NOT cancer and that it would be something small scale and treatable. Regardless we aren’t giving up and we truly believe Lidia will rise up out of that hospital bed and be strengthened and made whole in Jesus Name! Amen ❤️

Agnieszka TN - March 10, 2014 - 3:25 pm

Thank you for the update, Melanie. So good to know that Lidia is surrounded by such sweet friends. I keep Lidia in my thoughts constantly and pray for her recovery. Lots of love from Sweden.

Rachel Kline - March 10, 2014 - 3:25 pm

I have been praying for Lidia and Isadora since I heard this news. My friend has a daughter who battled c. diff multiple times. Probiotics always helped to lessen the effects and fight it. Maybe this is something Lidia can look into.

Marianne - March 10, 2014 - 3:41 pm

You have been on my heart and mind. Praying the doctors can get a clear view from the CT Scan giving them much needed answers to avoid the biopsy. Praying in Oklahoma!

Angie - March 10, 2014 - 3:41 pm

Thank you so much for the update. Just wanted to let you know I am on your long list of people praying for Lidia and Isadora!! She is such an inspiring woman.

Evis - March 10, 2014 - 3:50 pm

I was going through the Facebook page not long ago looking for any recent news. Thanks for the update!
Lidia you have been in my heart, mind and prayers everyday. Keep smiling and having a positive outlook. God is holding you in His hands as He always does specially when we go through rough times. Hang in there my friend…Hugs to Isadora…

Nicole Pollard - March 10, 2014 - 4:16 pm

Please post on FB if someone starts up a donation page, since these things get expensive. Thanks!

Megan - March 10, 2014 - 4:37 pm

Following from Florida. Thank you for all of the updates. Not a day has gone by that I haven’t thought of Lidia and Isadora. As a fan of Oh So Posh actions, I’d love to see a photo challenge of images edited with only Oh So Posh actions. Something I’m planning on doing as a personal project. Love you Lidia! Stay strong.

Mikngayaq - March 10, 2014 - 6:25 pm

Prayers for answers and a full and speedy recovery. I can’t recommend Gentian Violet enough for thrush, it is amazing and works so much faster than so many other meds we tried. Hope you get some relief soon. Hugs.

Nicole - March 10, 2014 - 7:11 pm

Thanks for the update – saying a prayer each night for Lidia!

THE DOCTORS NEED TO START HER ON PROBIOTICS TO HELP WITH THE YEAST / THRUSH!

Amanda - March 10, 2014 - 8:41 pm

I know this is really weird! I remember reading an article through Yahoo news about a women who had c. diff and what she went through, trying everything and anything. Her last hope was a fecal transplant and it worked.

I did a quick google search and found this article. Of course, everybody is different and doctor’s know best of what a person’s body can tolerate, but I was amazed by this form of treatment. I know someone personally who struggled with c. diff because of needing to take antibiotics due to an infection that settled in scar tissue in her heart and also struggled with bone cancer.

Best of luck, keep thinking those positive thoughts that it is NOT cancer and God will provide!

Amanda - March 10, 2014 - 8:42 pm
Suzanne Holloway - March 10, 2014 - 11:26 pm

Lydia, never give up. Have you heard of , “Cancer Treatment enters of Ameri a’?

laura davis - March 11, 2014 - 8:08 am

Thanks for the update…still praying and sending good wishes…

jodi - March 11, 2014 - 11:50 am

Please check out the video on ChrisBeatCancer.com. “What every cancer patient needs to know. ” Natural therapies to supporting the immune system and healing cancer and avoiding chemo . Check out the survivor story videos. So inspiring! Prayers for you and your sweet girl.

Donna (Texas) - March 15, 2014 - 7:56 pm

Sending love and prayers!!
hughugs

Still waiting for answers…

LidiaSleepUpdate on Lidia. The biopsy hasn’t been schedule yet, so until that is done her current diagnosis as of today is “Cancer until proven otherwise“. The surgeon has some concerns about doing the biopsy right now, partially because of the ongoing C. Diff infection she’s still fighting. However in the meantime she remains in a lot of pain if not well controlled, and today was especially rough as they tried to test the waters to see if she could tolerate a lower dosage of pain medication. The answer to that was a resounding, no. They were able to get the pain back under control again, and when they did Lidia was Oh So Happy. Within minutes of relief she was outside her door sharing her fruit bouquet with the nursing staff.:-DThank you Anna for sending that edible arrangement… Lidia & Isadora both loved it so much! Also Lidia’s room smells so wonderful with the flowers and you can see the color on the window sill just passing by her door… Very Oh So Posh!  :)

Lidia2Please pray for Lidia as she sorts through all the options to determine the next step to take from here. Isadora is coming by every day to see her mama, and definitely keeps a smile on her face the entire time. Lidia is always sharing stories and photos of Isadora with the nurses. After chatting with some of the nurses today I realized she hadn’t said anything to them about her business or non-profit organization… It’s a true reflection of where Lidia’s heart is at the moment… first and foremost with her little girl. She keeps showing photos of her blue-eyed sweet-pea and saying “THIS is why I need to get better”. I know Lidia’s love for Isadora and God’s love for both of them is greater than whatever is inside her body right now, so that is definitely a huge source of HOPE for the days to come.

The #OhSoPoshStrong instagram hashtag campaign has grown to over 800! I’m so hoping we can hit 1,000:)

One of the nurses today commented on how Lidia had such a big and beautiful presence about her that she knew she must have been someone really special. Boy was she right  :)

 

 

 

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Pam - March 8, 2014 - 7:19 am

Thanks so much for the update.

Let’s hope that the strength of prayer wins through and Lidia is able to overcome these latest trials.

The love shared by Lidia and Isadora is palpable through her many stories on here and FB. I can imagine the joy and comfort this brings them both at this uncertain time.

Thinking of you all.

Abby Terwey - March 8, 2014 - 10:34 am

Hugs, good vibes, and lots of prayers coming from a fellow photog and fan in Nebraska! Thank you for the updates!

Megan Bryant - March 8, 2014 - 10:42 am

Keep us updated. Prayers are being lifted!!

Kerri - March 8, 2014 - 10:43 am

The love and bond between Lidia and Isadora is palpable. I’ve followed your story on FB and IG and pray continually for you both. Lidia, you are an inspiration to so many. ❤️

Nancy Wyatt - March 8, 2014 - 10:47 am

Thank you for the update. Continuing to pray for Lidia and her sweet girl. Hugs from Conroe, Texas

jackie Vieira - March 8, 2014 - 10:54 am

Continuing to pray for Lidia and her precious daughter. May she stay strong. She is truly AMAZING!

Missy - March 8, 2014 - 11:03 am

Lidia I am praying for you, the doctors as well as your sweet Isadora! Stay strong my friend. Lean on Him and know that God has you in the palm of His hands. Ty for sharing your journey…..

Genevieve Thompson - March 8, 2014 - 11:10 am

Many, many prayers are going up to heaven, and we are saying plenty in Ohio for precious Lidia and Isadora. It seems like an uphill battle, but I believe you will WIN this war Lidia. I know it may look hopeless at times, I too understand the anxiety, the questions that go through your mind about what will I do IF? IF this? IF that? Trust Him, He sees the big picture. I had such a hard time when I fought through my own battle and asked God a million questions. I too wondered Why me? But I had to finally settle my own heart and realize this affliction was not from Him. This wasn’t His fate for me, He doesn’t cause these things. I truly believe with all my heart that Jesus who died for our sins and took our sickness upon Himself doesn’t make his kids sick. Why this happened, is a million dollar question. But I believe with all my heart He will send you healing and give you peace in the midst of the storm. ❤️❤️❤️

Sandra | Buechernische - March 8, 2014 - 11:52 am

All my best wishes from the deep bottom of my heart to both of you ♥ stay strong and fight!

Hugs from Germany
Sandra

Andrea Leite - March 8, 2014 - 12:01 pm

Hey Lidia!
Have you heard about John Of God in Brazil? You should check! My aunt was healed there 9 years ago with cancer. I have been there many times and believe it was the most beautiful and deep experience that I have ever had. Such a peaceful place! I felt in heaven since I am very spiritualist. I can not discribe it.
Oprah has been there take a look on her interview online.
Here is a link http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4JDIrSz3SUY

My prayers and all my love for you!!!! Keep strong for your daughter!!!!! Lots os xoxoxoxo from Colorado!!!

Andrea - March 8, 2014 - 12:03 pm

If you need more information I can help you.
Deia_lee@hotmail.com

CJ - March 8, 2014 - 12:31 pm

Praying for proof otherwise! Thinking and praying for everyone involved!

Tara - March 8, 2014 - 2:14 pm

Love and prayers for you and Isadora

Melissa - March 8, 2014 - 3:52 pm

Praying for you and your beautiful Isadora. There is so much power in prayer and I know there are many, many prayers being said for you and Isadora.

Bren - March 8, 2014 - 4:14 pm

Daily prayers are said for you Dear Lydia and your amazing Isadora…you are both in my thoughts always *Hugs*

sue cooley - March 8, 2014 - 4:40 pm

Hi Lidia- I was asked to pray for you all by Melissa. I don’t know her- she is a friend of a friend. But I told her my story so she could encourage you. I had breast cancer in 1996 ( my daughter was 4). I had a lumpectomy, chemo and radiation. They didn’t get it all out, and 2 years later I got it again in the same breast. Once again chemo. I was then cured – well for 16 years or so. I got bronchitis in 2012 and it would not go away. When I went back to tell dr I wasn’t any better they did a chest xray and found cancer in my right lung. I had a pie shaped piece of my lung taken out, chemo and radiation. Then, last November I was having headaches and they found 3 tumors in my brain. I had full brain radiation- that was rough. I am still fighting that and will know more after the 26th of March. Then I had a lymph node in my neck that was full of cancer- they removed it. I finished my radiation a couple weeks ago and have 2 chemos to go hopefully. I just wanted to encourage you to never lose hope and put your trust fully in Jesus. He has given me many trials, I don’t know why… to make me stronger and come closer to Him I think. He has healed me every time. When my daughter was small I begged Him not to take me and let her have her mommy while she grew up. He answered my prayers. Now I pray that I can stay alive to see her get married someday and see my grandbabies if she should have any. But no matter what happens, He has blessed me us beyond measure. And if He takes me home tomorrow- I know I will be in heaven and in His sweet arms. I just wanted to share this with you and tell you to always have a strong faith and never lose your hope or stop fighting!!! I am praying for you and your family. And I know exactly how you are feeling inside. Cry when you need to. May God bless you and we can all pray that spot away! In Jesus precious name. Amen

Laura - March 8, 2014 - 5:04 pm

We don’t know each other but I just wanted to pop on and say that you’re in my thoughts and prayers every day. Sending love, vibes of hope and strength. xxoo

Nadia - March 8, 2014 - 5:09 pm

Melanie, thank you so much for the update!

Dear Lidia,
Just wanted to leave you another note and let you know that I am praying for you and Isadora daily and will continue to pray for your complete healing, for peace, strength and comfort for both you and your beautiful girl, for God’s love outpouring through the hundreds of people showing they care- your angels on earth…
God will see you through this! Just hold on to your faith!

Jana Hutchinsonova - March 8, 2014 - 5:48 pm

Hi Lidia,
I have been following you for over a year. For some reason i do feel close to you. We do have few things in common. My daughter is the same age as Isadora. My birthday is 23rd of february. I do not live with father of my daughter. I come from easter europe, we are from Czech Republic. For the past more than a year you were part of my life. You were a person I was looking up to! So the latest news were shock for me!!! I do think about you and your daughter most of my time and I realy hope that you will get well soon!!! Please do! Sorry that from here I cannot do more for you !

Traci - March 8, 2014 - 10:16 pm

I am keeping yall on my prayers!!!

Leah - March 8, 2014 - 10:47 pm

Praying for you ladies! I know you will never realize how much you touch our lives on a daily basis, but may God bless you and heal you! There is power in PRAYER!

ana rocha - March 9, 2014 - 12:35 am

Thank you for the update, since Lidia feel sick , there was a not a single day that pass that I do not think about her or Isadora. We never met or spoke but for some very special people in this planet we do not need that in order to feel connected. She is one of them. SO I am very grateful for the updates so I can see where she is at. For now all I ask everyday is that she finds strength to keep going and I know she does and that Isadora continues to be the light she has everyday. I know the energy they have will help things for now. Keeping her in my thoughts everyday and sending her and Isadora the best of my energy so they can have each other for many many years to come!

Jennifer Hines - March 9, 2014 - 11:12 am

Continued love and prayers for you. Hoping for good results! <3

debbie - March 10, 2014 - 11:30 am

Looking for an address to send a book. Been praying for you

Amy M - March 10, 2014 - 1:00 pm

Hi Lidia, Followed your blog for years now. Sending up prayers to the Great Physician for your health and quick recovery. He is able!

Amy

Maria - March 10, 2014 - 2:40 pm

Lidia, we wish you all the best. I cried just reading your story – wish I was close so I could visit you and give you a hug … Keep the faith and know that this too shall pass. Keep fighting! You have a beautiful daughter who needs your love . A big hug your way from my family and I from New Jersey :)
I’ll be praying for you !!!!!

Love xoxoxo Maria

Nina - March 12, 2014 - 10:18 pm

Lidia – I am praying for you. It breaks my heart to see you like this, but I remind myself of when I first met you. It has been years, but I remember the determination you had to beat this. I am praying for the strength and guidance you need. Sweet Isadora is in my prayers too.

Mihai - March 20, 2014 - 5:19 am

The ignorance, kill. The 95% of the illnesses,have as origin the nutrition unsuitable. Human beeing is geneitcal programmed by God, for raw vegan nutrition (Genesis 1:29). Thermical prepared food, is junk food, and promote all kind oh strange disorders. The treatement consist from fresh prepared juisses from fruits and vegetables. The fruits do not be eat toghether with vegetables, because they have another type of digestion. Also is very helpfull ,for all kind of disorders, the treatement with “Teslatron”, a device wich was invented by Nicola Tesla.Please read the book Robert Young, Ph.D.”The pH Miracle,Balance Your Diet, Reclaim Your Health”.

MRI Results

photoUpdate on Lidia: The MRI results are in. The MRI confirmed the spot on the bone, and any possibility of this being caused from some sort of trauma to the back was ruled out. The silver lining is that there’s no damage showing at all in the tissue, so whatever this is, it seems to be isolated to the bone. The next step is a bone biopsy, which will tell us if this is cancer and what kind of cancer it is… whether it’s breast cancer metastasized or some other form of bone cancer. The biopsy has not be scheduled yet, so that’s all we know at this time.

Although Lidia is understandably exhausted and scared, she is facing all of this with an incredible strength and presence. This #OhSoPoshSTRONG hashtag trending on instagram has kept her smiling, and we just saw it already passed 500 posts!  Just amazing  :)  Lidia has always shared with me how it’s important to her to use social media for good – to spread positive thoughts and words of encouragement, rather than focusing on the negative. Now it’s such an amazing thing to see social media being used in this way to return that love and inspiration right back to her. Best social media campaign, ever.  ;)

Again if you would like to share any cards or words of encouragement, I’m it would cheer her up to wake up to a room full of color. The address is:

Presbyterian Hospital Plano
Lidia Grigorean
6200 W Parker Rd
Building C
Plano, TX 75093

Thanks again everyone for the prayers and continuing to fill her heart & spirit with hope.

~Melanie

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Mary Loughlin - March 6, 2014 - 6:02 pm

So sorry for all that you are going through, Lidia. I have followed you for several years on Facebook and you have been an inspiration to me with your beautiful photography, and also your strength in the face of adversity. I am praying for you each and every day! Stay strong.
Mary Loughlin

Chelsee - March 6, 2014 - 6:34 pm

Lidia, I am so sad to hear what you are going through. I recently became a mother in October to a beautiful baby girl. In following your journey you have taught me so much about life and how to raise a daughter to be an influence for good in the world! I feel so connected to you and Isadora and my heart breaks for you. You and your family are in my prayers. I will be sending healthy vibes your way!
-Chelsee

Manuela Perez - March 6, 2014 - 6:43 pm

I am so sorry that your life has taken this course, it seems you were finally at a point where everything was smiling down on you and Isadora when this came up. The good news is, everything is still smiling down on you! I say this because you have shown me that no matter what life hands you, to always see the beauty in it. You are a beautiful person, inside and out, and I have treasured reading your posts on Facebook. Isadora is lucky to have you for a mom, you are so inspiring. I will continue to keep you and Isadora in my prayers… I will pray for healing and comfort for you both and your family and close friends. Please know you are never alone through this struggle, there are many, many people (as you well know by now) keeping you in their thoughts and prayers always. I am sending to you and Isadora a hug, it is not much, but it is given with love and support ~ I will walk this walk with you as long as you need me, and then I will continue the walk. Through you I have learned to see the colors around me more brightly, and to enjoy even the smallest and most simple things, and that is why, I am simply giving you a hug ~ be well soon my cyber friend.

Hala - March 6, 2014 - 7:21 pm
Margaret K. - March 6, 2014 - 7:49 pm

Praying for you and Isadora… So sorry that you have to go through all this again… Hope all goes well! It have to! So many of us – online friends – love you, pray for you and think of you all the time!!! STAY STRONG!!!

LOVE you!!! <3

Best wishes to you and you beautiful Isadora – all the way from UK:)))

Emily - March 7, 2014 - 1:15 am

I wish that I could take the pain away. My entire family and I are praying for you, Isadora, and the rest of your family. You have been such an inspiration to me since I met you on facebook. You have taught me how to be a better mother. You have shown me such beauty in every day life. You have also taught me how to truly trust in God when things are not going well. You walk the walk every day. I believe in you. I know that you will get through this storm. We are all in this together whether you see us or not. We are all fighting with and for you. For every person who writes you, there are 10 more praying for you with them. Please continue to keep us updated. We love you and are praying so hard!!!!

Tracey Steele - March 7, 2014 - 2:02 am

I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. I will keep you in my prayers. Stay strong, you WILL beat it.

Felicia Broschart - March 7, 2014 - 8:34 pm

Sending you and your daughter positive thoughts and prayers. You are strong and I know you can handle this!

Brooke - March 8, 2014 - 11:31 am

Sending every ounce of hope and love your way. Get well soon. You are a very inspiring person!

Kim Blake - March 14, 2014 - 10:26 am

I’ve been praying for you & sweet Isadora! You’re a STRONG woman & you have encouraged so many people. I’m believing that God is gonna heal you completely & you’ll be a living testimony to what our almighty God can do! Keep your head up & remember that you have amazing friends all over the world that love you & are praying for you daily! You are an awesome woman & a great mother to Isadora, life may knock you down but you shall get back up!
Be strong, be brave for The Lord thy God is with thee.

Prayers for Lidia

InstagramHi everyone I’m a friend of Lidia’s, and wanted to share an update since I know so many of you are keeping her in your thoughts and prayers. She’s been is so very appreciative of all the prayers and encouragement she’s received over the last couple of days. She keeps saying she doesn’t know what she did to deserve so many amazing friends and supporters and it’s nice to see her smiling through the tears as she reads the kind words you have all been sharing. Also a huge thanks to Rachel Vanoven for starting the instagram hashtag #ohsoposhstrong … this has seriously given her some light in the midst of this cloudy day.

If you would like to send a card or words of encouragement to Lidia or Isadora, they can be sent to the hospital at this address:

Presbyterian Hospital Plano
Lidia Grigorean
6200 W Parker Rd
Building C
Plano, TX 75093

Just to give a little history on what she’s been going through recently for those of you who aren’t aware, she’s been struggling with a variety of health issues since last October. Among other things she’s been fighting kidney stone, kidney infection, bronchitis, excruciating back pain & migraines and mysterious bruising all over her body. On Tuesday she went back to the doctor because this latest round of back pain was not lightening up, and they immediately admitted into the hospital to run a series of tests to see if they could find an underlying issue for this string of occurrences. Of course we were just praying for rotten luck.

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Yesterday afternoon they uncovered that the infection she’s fighting right now is being caused by a C. Diff infection which was likely caused from the antibiotics she was on. C. Diff nearly took her life whens he was pregnant with Isadora, so it was hard to hear that she came down with it again.

PETScanThe next blow of bad news came from the results of her PET scan which showed a significant spot on her lower rib (shown in the photo), right where she’s experiencing the pain. The doctors are concerned because it looks like cancer, so they are doing an MRI on her right now to see if they can get a better look at the bone & tissue to see what all is affected. The next step from here is likely a biopsy to test for cancer. We don’t know if this is breast cancer metastasized or bone cancer. Of course we are all praying that by some miracle this is NOT cancer.

Isadora has been really struggling and missing her mama, and she’s very scared about what might be happening. It doesn’t help that Lidia has to be careful about how many visitors are in the room with the infection she has, and any visitors that can come in need to wear a gown and gloves to be near her. Lidia does not want to mention the scary “C” word to her until they have all the information, but it’s clear that Isadora senses something isn’t good. But even in the middle of this she has been so incredibly sweet, loving and encouraging with Lidia… wise beyond her years just like her mama:)She’s staying at home with her dad, and Lidia’s sister is flying in from Romania this weekend as well to be here with her.

I will keep sharing updates on here to keep everyone informed as we receive results from the ongoing tests. In the meantime I know she appreciates the continued prayers and warm thoughts as she faces the unknown…

~Melanie

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efrat - March 6, 2014 - 12:49 pm

she is in my heart, and we pray for her and Isadora. hopping to read good news soon. i have been following her journey from Israel, amazing photographer and a beautiful soul. stay strong.

Chris - March 6, 2014 - 1:34 pm

Thank you for the update. You are a wonderful friend. Sending many good thoughts and prayers to Lidia and Isadora.

Patsy Lander - March 6, 2014 - 4:05 pm

glad to have this update on Lidia. Relived to hear that Isadora is with her Dad and that Sister will be here this weekend! Nothing better than family to surround a very wise and precious little girl with! Thank you for the information! Godspeed prayers to all of you!

Jessica peters - March 6, 2014 - 4:11 pm

Please contact me via a go fund me account that we want to start and promote all for Lidia and isadora .. I don’t want to post all my thoughts publically but I have received many emails of support staying please do this

Eliza Daniels - March 6, 2014 - 4:14 pm

Praying for you, Lidia! My heart aches to know you may have to travel this road again. I have been following you for years, and have enjoyed getting to know you through your posts. Stay strong <3

Tiffany hatch - March 6, 2014 - 4:15 pm

Thank you for the update and I’m praying for Lidia and family. Big hugs from Colorado.

Shannan - March 6, 2014 - 4:16 pm

She is an inspiration to so many in and out of the photography world. She is a mother, a fighter, and a survivor. We are sending our prayers and hugs to her and her family.

Robin odom - March 6, 2014 - 4:18 pm

You and Isadora are in my prayers.

Pam nugent - March 6, 2014 - 4:18 pm

Melanie, Thank you for this blog. Lidia, know so many people are rooting for a speedy recovery, and hoping and praying for the best. Much love from San Diego, CA!!!

Laura Bailey - March 6, 2014 - 4:19 pm

Praying so hard for you, Lidia! I know your sweet girl needs her mama! I sure hope you are well soon and a miracle comes your way! Much love!

Cassandra - March 6, 2014 - 4:19 pm

Praying for this amazing Mom and her beautiful daughter, thanks for the update!

Genevieve Thompson (Jennifer) - March 6, 2014 - 4:21 pm

God will meet you right where you’re at. I fought the Cdiff 3 times back to back within 6 months time and fought the life threatening kind. I understand the pain and the panic. I believe without a shadow of a doubt that God is going to see you through. My family and I are standing in the gap for you along with everyone else’s prayers. You are so loved. God has Isadora in the palm of His hand, just as He has you. God has not left you. You will walk THROUGH the shadow of death! Do you hear me? YOU WILL WALK THROUGH….remember this…ITS ONLY A SHADOW.

Saundra - March 6, 2014 - 4:23 pm

Praying for Lidia and her family all the way from Canada!

Stephanie Elzinga - March 6, 2014 - 4:25 pm

Thank you for the update. I don’t know Lidia personally (only through her website) but I’m sending my prayers. I will also be sending a card and invite others to do the same. In fact, I will pay for the card AND the postage. You see, I am a distributor for a greeting card company. So if you would like to send Lidia a card, please go to http://www.sendoutcards.com and put in username: cards4lidia and password: lidia

I am paying for all the cards and the postage (these are REAL card sent in the mail). The website is fairly easy to navigate but if anyone needs help please contact me at elzingas@gmail.com and I can walk you through the process. You can also add photos to the cards if you wish. March is “pay it forward” month for me and I would love to shower Lidia with cards of encouragement.

Jennifer Howe - March 6, 2014 - 4:27 pm

Praying hard for you, Lidia, and for your precious daughter as well. May God hold you both in the palm of His hand while you go through this and always.

Lisa Wurzelbacher - March 6, 2014 - 4:28 pm

Thank you for the blog and update. Sending my love and prayers. Hugs from Ohio ♡

Donna - March 6, 2014 - 4:29 pm

Thinking and praying for you at this time prayers from Newfoundland, Canada.

Beata Chipman - March 6, 2014 - 4:33 pm

My prayers and thoughts are with Lidia. I battled cdiff while pregnant and right after delivery of my daughter so I know how difficult that can be alone . I can’t imagine all the scary things happening at the same time !!! God Bless

Kelly - March 6, 2014 - 4:33 pm

Lidia is such a strong woman, prayers for healing sent her way!

Katie - March 6, 2014 - 4:35 pm

Once a warrior, always a warrior. Fight hard my friend, fight hard!

Peggy McAllister - March 6, 2014 - 4:38 pm

Prayers for Lidia are going up to the ultimate physician. May God Bless her and the rest of her family with his pure grace. Much love from Arkansas.

Janice - March 6, 2014 - 4:42 pm

Lidia, I love your pictures and you and your daughter I am praying for you and asking God to get you thru this. My prayers are with you and Isadora, I know that God is watching over. I send healing love and light to you.
Be Strong.

jackie Vieira - March 6, 2014 - 4:43 pm

My prayers and thoughts are with Lidia. Stay strong Lidia! Big hug from New Jersey!

Tracy - March 6, 2014 - 4:44 pm

Thank you Melanie, my heart just breaks for all they have been through. I will continue to pray for them both.

Debbie Davis - March 6, 2014 - 4:46 pm

I have always enjoyed her photography page…I am a very amateur one. She a beautiful lady and mother. Very inspirational…. praying for a healing… thank u Rachel for keeping us posted. Fan of you both…oh and Isadora…..

Brenda King - March 6, 2014 - 4:50 pm

Praying that it is not cancer. If it is I pray Gid gives her strength to fight it.

Crystal - March 6, 2014 - 4:59 pm

You are in my thoughts and prayers! Im also a doTerra user and used DDR Prime/Frankincense to treat my Grandmothers stage three lymphoma. It worked wonders! Please keep using yours daily and set up a routine. If you dont have DDR get it asap and apply to the area where they are finding the possible cancer. hugs and lots of love from California!!!

Leica - March 6, 2014 - 5:03 pm

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. May the joy of the LORD be your strength during these times of hardship.

Hollis Bella - March 6, 2014 - 5:17 pm

Lifting you and Isadora up in prayers. You have been such an inspiration in my photography pusuits. You are an incredible photographer and seem like an even more incredible mom. We will keep you in our prayers.

Jenny - March 6, 2014 - 5:19 pm

I am an amateur photographer that discovered Lidia’s amazing work a little over a year ago and have followed her posts and have most of her photo shop actions and absolutely love them. She is an extremely talented young woman and very inspiring. Love reading her posts on Isadora and reading all her inspirational post. She is truly an amazing woman. Sending prayers to you Lidia and Isadora from Wisconsin.

Denise Mahaney - March 6, 2014 - 5:26 pm

Keeping Lidia and Isadora in my prayers every day. I am a new photographer and I am inspired by her work. May GOD bless you as you travel down this road.

Johanna - March 6, 2014 - 5:36 pm

Hello, Lidia. Not if you read a message you send to facebook, I recommend you do 60 days of green juice (only consume juices), it is a wonderful program called DAR, the videos are on youtube. I’m from Venezuela. All the best, life and health to enjoy with your little Isadora. kisses

Fran Salamone - March 6, 2014 - 5:38 pm

Thank you for the update and for sharing such personal information. Will continue to keep you and Isadora in our prayers and that it’s not cancer again..if it is I pray God helps you to conquer it again. You are such an inspiration and such a strong beautiful woman.

Laura Davis - March 6, 2014 - 5:41 pm

Thank you I just know Lidia and Isadora thru her post.. but I am heartbroken for her.. I will continue to keep them in my prayers…

Sincerely Laura

yolanda - March 6, 2014 - 5:46 pm

Prayers for you Lidia and Isadora! Praying God give you both the comfort and peace you need now! He will be right there with you!

Regina bray - March 6, 2014 - 5:46 pm

My prayers are with the whole family! I have always enjoyed following her page on Facebook she has encouraged me thru her words an photos an inspired me thru her beautiful images. Prayers for healing an peace.

Ashley - March 6, 2014 - 5:53 pm

Sending prayers and positive vibes from Pittsburgh!

Dunia - March 6, 2014 - 5:57 pm

Hello Lidia, I’m Cuban living in Canada and I’m following you in Facebook since Isidora was very sick, now I’m reading your struggling history and its a hard breaking. I know that this is not time to think about money but I was thinking to give you a website where you can post your history and ask for donations for any expenses you may have, I know that in the state the health is not free, and also it will help you with any extra expenses your family is having, the name of the name of the fundraising is Gofundme, its free to register and you can spread your words in there, Its very good, I used for my cousin’s cancer treatment, unfortunately she passed away a month ago but the donations we received we will give it to hers children. No sure how much I can help you and I thought this can be one of the ways….prayers and good vibes on your way!!!!

Didi - March 6, 2014 - 5:58 pm

Praying for Lidia and Isidora. My God wrap his healing arms around Lidia. Thank you for the updates

Erin - March 6, 2014 - 6:01 pm

Praying and praying stay strong and positive Miracles do happen !

zita - March 6, 2014 - 6:11 pm

Stay strong lidia, you are a warrior!

Deesha Lornes - March 6, 2014 - 6:14 pm

To start, I want to say that everyone who knows you, whether in person or through the internet, is praying for you. I am sure of it. You are and have been an inspiration for all of us. And your sweet, sweet daughter has grown up before our very eyes. Praying so hard that she keeps her beautiful Mommy on this earth for a very long time, to watch her marry that man that she is beginning to dream about.

Secondly, I wanted to tell you how you have impacted my life. The first time that I saw a post online from you, was on my newsfeed, as a friend of mine had shared a post of yours. I was in my own deep despair and broken-hearted, as it was around the winter Holidays in 2012 and I had just lost my husband to a very horrible and unexpected accident. The specific post of yours that I saw was the one where you shared a video of the poem, “A finger, two dots, then me.” This video spoke volumes to me about the fact that I would see my husband again someday. It gave me a sense of peace, that I had been unable to find ANYWHERE else. And the fact that you shared it because Isadora loved it was even more precious to me. She seems like such an amazing and wise child.

Last, I just want to tell you that after the video, I checked in on your Facebook often, this is why I say that I feel like we have watched Isadora grow up before our very eyes. I love how your whole life seems to be committed to her. And how she is just as crazy about you. It is beautiful. One of my favorite posts is the picture of her and the Giant Moon. It reminded me again of how you led me to the poem and the peace that it brought. So, in these incredibly difficult times, I would just like to remind you of that poem. And hope that it will again bring peace and reassurance that we will always be connected to those that we love. Trust that everyone is praying hard for you and God will pull you through this once again.

Love and blessings,
Deesha Lornes

Christa Yost - March 6, 2014 - 6:20 pm

I have been following you as a photographer, and your story as a mother.. your journey has touched so many people, you and Isadora are in my thoughts and prayers.. hugs from Ontario, Canada.

Jennifer Hines - March 6, 2014 - 6:37 pm

I love you Lidia!!! I am praying hard for you. Being a photographer myself, you have been such an inspiration. You are amazing and I know GOD has this!!!! Prayers and love!

Michelle Pierce - March 6, 2014 - 6:45 pm

Lidia you have always been an inspiration to me and I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Lori - March 6, 2014 - 6:45 pm

Praying for you. Stay strong..

lorri - March 6, 2014 - 6:46 pm

Deesha, what a thoughtful and meaningful comment. Lidia, you are braver and stronger than you know!!!

maria - March 6, 2014 - 6:54 pm

praying for you and your daughter, you are an inspiration, stay strong!

Becky - March 6, 2014 - 6:57 pm

I have always admired your strength and the love you have for Isadora. In fact I loved your post of Isadora’s daily lunches and the thought and work that went into them. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. If anyone can get through this, it would be you.

Kay Conrad - March 6, 2014 - 6:58 pm

I will continue to pray for her and for her daughter. Such a strong woman, with a huge heart. She will will fight and she will win!! <3

Diane - March 6, 2014 - 7:00 pm

I struggled with c diff for 3 horrible years. I know what that is like. I am so sorry you had it too and I hope the news you get is good news! I know being brave and putting on a happy face can be hard and you must be scared. Please know that many people are praying and hoping this comes out ok.

Michele - March 6, 2014 - 7:06 pm

I pray for you. You are in my thoughts throughout the day. I wish there was more I could do – however, right now, I will continue to pray.

Daisy - March 6, 2014 - 7:16 pm

This story is so close to my heart. CANCER is a horrible word to hear, to ponder, to consider. You are a survivor and know that you can beat whatever is coming your way. Sending you a million hugs, you are in my deepest prayers. Dios santisimo, te pido que tengas a esta bella mujer y a su hija en tu voluntad. Eres todo poderoso, y lo puedes todo. Mantenlas en tu virtud y no las dejes caer. Amen ♥

Alvida - March 6, 2014 - 7:19 pm

What the hell ! Come on Lidia! You can beat this! You are atrong enough to beat anything! Show the world you are to beat any illness !!!! You are the strongest person I know !!!! Don’t ever ever ever give up! On anything!!!
Love and prayers from me
- a

debbie - March 6, 2014 - 7:21 pm

There aren’t two kinder gentler souls who have capture

debbie - March 6, 2014 - 7:26 pm

There aren’t two kinder gentler souls who have captured the hearts of so many. Please dear Lord hold Lydia and Isadore in your powerful hands. Please provide them with strength, peace and healing. Lydia my heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you.

Dona Campbell - March 6, 2014 - 7:26 pm

Lydia you have been such an inspiration to me. Praying for you and your sweet daughter. Fight hard sweet lady. You are not alone .

Dannielle - March 6, 2014 - 7:40 pm

Praying! Praying for peace that passes ALL understanding, praying for complete healing and trusting the mighty King of Kings is walking along side you and will carry though this stronger than ever before! Xo

Kathy Leamon - March 6, 2014 - 7:56 pm

Praying for healing for you! So sorry that you are having to face that monster we know as cancer once again, my heart hurts for you! Just remember we worship the great physician and he has a plan for you, just trust him! He will never leave you or desert you, be strong and kick cancers butt again, I hate cancer it took three of my brothers so I will rejoice even greater when I hear you kicked its butt!! Praying ,

Adriana Janky - March 6, 2014 - 8:08 pm

I am praying for you Lidia and pray that you heal up and that it is nothing serious. You are such an amazing person! You are a huge inspiration to everyone around you. Praying for you always!

Tasha Briwnsey - March 6, 2014 - 8:32 pm

I have been following you for a couple years now and find you so inspirational, you find the goodness in everything. You are an amazing mother to Isadora and teacher to all of us. You are in my thoughts and prayers, you can beat whatever this may be, you are a fighter! Sending love to both you and Isadora xo

Angie - March 6, 2014 - 8:35 pm

Thank you so much Melanie for this update, I am so grateful to know that our dear friend is in such good hands…..Lidia you are a beautiful, brave warrior. This THING has NOTHING on you, girl. Much love from Costa Rica, I can’t wait to get home and hug your neck. So many prayers……….

Tabitha - March 6, 2014 - 8:58 pm

Thank you, Melanie, for the update! Sending warm hugs and many prayers for Lidia and, of course, Isadora as well. Please keep us all posted and make sure Lidia knows we are all praying for her!!!

Monique - March 6, 2014 - 9:39 pm

Just wanted to send you love, big hugs and positive thoughts in this very difficult time. Your devotion and love for Isadora is breathtakingly beautiful. She is very blessed to have such a beautiful and strong momma looking out for her. Stay strong. We are all praying for you. God bless you.

Shannon - March 6, 2014 - 9:44 pm

What can one say that hasn’t already been beautifully stated…you touch so many lives on a daily basis….from your amazing photography work to your daughters lunches-you have inspired so many! You truly are loved, and I know so many prayers and positive thoughts and well wishes are surrounding you from all over the world- God is so good, and as scary as this new journey is, you are NEVER alone….I have no doubt you will continue to rise above your circumstances, and inspire and encourage others, when all we are trying to do is offer that to you….. I’ll be praying for you, and though we’ve never met, I feel you’re an old friend…. God Bless you and Isadora

Kathy L - March 6, 2014 - 11:17 pm

Praying for you and little Isadora. Know that you are loved by many my dear. POSITIVE THOUGHTS!

Nany Lopez - March 6, 2014 - 11:47 pm

God bless you Lidia and your sweet Isadora, You will be in my prayers.

Fawn - March 6, 2014 - 11:51 pm

Lidia,

I am praying for you and your sweet daughter through these dark times. God bless you.

Kimberly - March 6, 2014 - 11:56 pm

Lidia, Praying for you through out the day and night. Our God is a wonderful God!!! Prayer warriors are on your side, and we will not stop! Our faith is strong and will continue to grow as your army of support grows.. May your fear turn to faith, and May God go before you in your biopsy and find favor in you… Life isn’t waiting for the storm to pass, but learning to dance in the rain! Dance my sweet friend.. Dance!!
Love in Christ
Kimberly

Cindy - March 7, 2014 - 12:25 am

Prayers and hugs.

Ana Rocha - March 7, 2014 - 1:39 am

Lidia, you amaze with your strength and I know so many of us are creating this huge chain of love around you , sending you the best energy and prayers.
We will continue to keep this chain of love around you now and forever.
Isadora is very lucky to have a mummy like you and she will have the strength to endure too!

Much love

Ana

Holly - March 7, 2014 - 3:19 am

Oh Lidia, if anyone can do this, you can! Your strength and courage is inspirational! I don’t comment often but follow you and your wonderful colourful life on FB and Instagram and LOVE how positive and full of light you always are. I’m thinking of you and your beautiful Isadora and wish you all the love, luck and best wishes in the entire world. My thoughts are with you at this dark time. Much love x

Leanne - March 7, 2014 - 6:38 am

Lidia,

A friend of mine just shared this post on her fb asking all of her friends to pray for you. I don’t know you in any way, but I do have faith in the Lord and will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers…along with your beautiful daughter. Stay strong and faithful. God bless you.

Dawn Wolcott - March 7, 2014 - 7:35 am

Dearest Lidia ~ Hubert H. Humphrey said “The greatest healing therapy is friendship and love” ~ sending you both, along with a sprinkle of laughter to help lighten your load and keep your heart and soul strong.

Crys - March 7, 2014 - 4:10 pm

I’m praying for you, Lidia, for your daughter, family and friends. I have been a fan of your page for a few years now and love to read your inspirational posts. Stay focused on that sweet child of yours and stay strong and never lose your faith. ♥

Yuliana Upchurch - March 7, 2014 - 5:04 pm

Lidia my heart hurts for you. Know that you are loved even though I have not met you in person. I’m joining everyone else in prayer for you and Isadora. God Bless You and Isadora oxoxox

Sarah Walton - March 7, 2014 - 9:50 pm

Lidia, I have been following you on fb for a couple of years now and you are such a kind caring and inspirational person. You are so positive and the relationship you have with your beautiful Isadora is just the most beautiful thing! While your about to jump a series of hurdles again, I thank you for sharing your life with us and allowing us into your family. I wish you all the best and I look forward to the day when your in remission again and back home with your amazing and beautiful daughter. Strength, Hugs and best wishes to you and Isadora xxx

Melissa - March 7, 2014 - 10:38 pm

life’s a bitch…but you’re the strongest woman I know and if anyone can get through this, you can. hugs to you and Isadora.

Tamara Bedard - March 7, 2014 - 11:21 pm

Lidia, you are an angel, and an inspiration to so many people. My heart aches for you and Isadora and I truly wish you strength and love from the bottom of my soul. If I could hug you and Isadora and give you the confidence you need to get through tomorrow, I would certainly do that. Just know the world is praying for you right now and sending strength, love and white healing light. You can do this! xo

Audrey - March 7, 2014 - 11:39 pm

Psalm 46, even just the first two verses.

Praying for you, Lidia!

Jennifer Berge - March 8, 2014 - 11:23 am

Many prayers and blessings go to you and your sweet girl! Your an inspiration, Get well soon♥

Kim - March 8, 2014 - 6:21 pm

Lydia your a true inspiration. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful daughter. Wishing and praying you well❤️

Heather Lickliter Larkin - March 8, 2014 - 6:33 pm

Lidia, I wish this were not happening to you or your family. I don’t know you, but I very much hope that you get good news.

Amanda - March 9, 2014 - 10:55 am

Mark 11:22 And Jesus answered them, “Have faith in God.
Psalm 107:20 He sent out his word and healed them,
and delivered them from their destruction.(sickness)
Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Do not rely on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight.( <–This is what I stand on)
I am so very sorry.. But I know that God is in the healing business. And I also know that all who believe in Him can and will be healed. Live by faith not by sight. I will be following, and will be praying for the day she announces she is no longer sick…

Nicole Atzen - March 10, 2014 - 12:07 pm

im praying for her & the family. godspeed hoping for the best. sending her strength & love.God Bless her & the family.

Caroline - March 12, 2014 - 2:08 am

Looking through this post brings it all rushing back. I have that same scar on my back, and traveled down this same path, crippled by pain when the cancer returned in my bones. I truly hope that this is not your path. But, I am here to tell you that, if it is, you WILL fight it again. Your inner strength will once again build up, and fight this beast if it has to. And your darling daughter will be there as a daily reminder of what you are fighting for. It is so hard to look at our children during this fight and process all the “what ifs”, but know that she is resilient. She is full of the same inner strength, and she will be right there waiting with open arms and loving kisses every time you need them. “You never know how strong you are until being strong is your only option.”

Sending you much love and strength. Eff Cancer. ;)

Jessica Perez - March 13, 2014 - 9:58 pm

Hi Lidia! Praying God’s healing touch for you, I know how scary of a time this may be, but rest assure, you are not fighting this battle alone! God is with you every step of the way! May He bless you and keep you strong and full of peace, strength and encouragement!